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Four games to play with the questions: 21 Questions, How Well Do You Know Me, Would You Rather, and This or That.

Same questions, more fun. Turn the deck into a game and the answers come out easier, especially the ones you would both dodge in a normal conversation.

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Games / 21 Questions

What do you always order at a coffee shop?

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21 Questions

Take turns. Each of you asks and answers the same question before moving on. No skipping.

  1. 1What is your most controversial food opinion?
  2. 2What is your go-to karaoke song?
  3. 3What is the last thing you searched for on your phone?
  4. 4What is your most used emoji?
  5. 5Which fictional character are you most like?
  6. 6What song is always stuck in your head?
  7. 7What app could you never delete?
  8. 8What is something you are weirdly competitive about?
  9. 9What is the worst gift you have ever received?
  10. 10What is the best gift you have ever given someone?
  11. 11Which celebrity would you want as your best friend?
  12. 12If you had one superpower, which would you pick?
  13. 13What sound makes you want to leave the room?
  14. 14What do you always order at a coffee shop?
  15. 15What is the most embarrassing thing in your search history?
  16. 16What is something you pretend to understand but do not?
  17. 17What show could you rewatch forever without getting bored?
  18. 18If you were an animal, which one would you be?
  19. 19What do you collect without really meaning to?
  20. 20What is the worst haircut you have ever had?
  21. 21What do you order from a drive-through at 2am?
  22. 22What is something you are weirdly proud of?
  23. 23Which holiday do you love more than you will admit?
  24. 24What game do you always win?
  25. 25What game do you always lose no matter what?
  26. 26What is a habit of yours that is secretly a little unhinged?
  27. 27Who was your celebrity crush growing up?
  28. 28What do you always forget no matter how hard you try?
  29. 29What is your party trick, real or imagined?
  30. 30What is the worst pickup line you have ever used?
  31. 31What habit do you wish you could just switch off?
  32. 32What are you a total snob about?
  33. 33What song always gets you up and dancing?
  34. 34What app do you open without even thinking about it?
  35. 35What would you never admit to a stranger but will admit to me?

How Well Do You Know Me

Guess your partner's answer first, then let them tell you the real one. A point for every match.

  1. 36What is my go-to comfort movie?
  2. 37What would I order at a new restaurant?
  3. 38What is my biggest pet peeve?
  4. 39What was my first job?
  5. 40What is my favorite way to spend a Sunday?
  6. 41What side of the bed do I sleep on?
  7. 42What is my most irrational fear?
  8. 43What is my favorite season?
  9. 44What is my go-to order at a coffee shop?
  10. 45What was my favorite subject in school?
  11. 46What is my most used phrase?
  12. 47What is my biggest deal breaker?
  13. 48What is my favorite thing to do on a rainy day?
  14. 49What is my most used app?
  15. 50What did I want to be when I grew up?
  16. 51What is my favorite comfort food?
  17. 52What was I like in high school?
  18. 53Which chore do I hate the most?
  19. 54What is my dream vacation spot?
  20. 55What was my childhood nickname?
  21. 56What is my favorite way to relax after a hard day?
  22. 57What is my go-to Halloween costume idea?
  23. 58What is my favorite holiday?
  24. 59What is my hidden talent?
  25. 60What was my favorite toy as a kid?
  26. 61What is my proudest achievement?
  27. 62What is my favorite thing about weekends?
  28. 63What is my most annoying habit?
  29. 64What was my first pet's name?
  30. 65What is my ideal night out?
  31. 66What is my ideal night in?
  32. 67What is my favorite type of music?
  33. 68What is my go-to excuse for being late?
  34. 69What is my biggest guilty pleasure?
  35. 70What movie genre do I refuse to watch?

Would You Rather

Pick one, then defend it. The fun is in the why, not the answer.

  1. 71Would you rather relive our first date or our wedding day?
  2. 72Would you rather know how our story ends or be surprised by it?
  3. 73Would you rather slow dance in the kitchen or under the stars?
  4. 74Would you rather get one really good compliment from me a day or one long hug?
  5. 75Would you rather travel the world together or build our dream home?
  6. 76Would you rather fight fair every time or never fight at all?
  7. 77Would you rather have unlimited date nights or unlimited lazy Sundays?
  8. 78Would you rather always know what I am thinking or always be surprised by me?
  9. 79Would you rather renew our vows every year or never mention the wedding again?
  10. 80Would you rather get married again in secret or throw the wedding of the century?
  11. 81Would you rather split all the chores evenly or split the bills evenly?
  12. 82Would you rather live five minutes from your family or five minutes from mine?
  13. 83Would you rather have a joint bank account or keep everything separate?
  14. 84Would you rather cook together every night or never cook again?
  15. 85Would you rather move somewhere new together or stay exactly where we are?
  16. 86Would you rather have a big wedding or elope somewhere far away?
  17. 87Would you rather relive our worst fight or our best trip?
  18. 88Would you rather get flowers for no reason or a handwritten note?
  19. 89Would you rather plan the next trip or let me plan it?
  20. 90Would you rather never argue about money again or never argue about chores again?
  21. 91Would you rather adopt a dog together or adopt a cat together?
  22. 92Would you rather have matching tattoos or matching playlists?
  23. 93Would you rather host every holiday or travel for every holiday?
  24. 94Would you rather read my mind or have me always say exactly what I mean?
  25. 95Would you rather never forget an anniversary or never lose an argument?
  26. 96Would you rather have a long engagement or a short one?
  27. 97Would you rather spend a rainy day in bed together or exploring a new city?
  28. 98Would you rather cuddle on the couch or take a long walk together?
  29. 99Would you rather have breakfast in bed every day or dinner out every week?
  30. 100Would you rather redo our first kiss or our first fight?
  31. 101Would you rather always be the one who apologizes first or never have to?
  32. 102Would you rather celebrate anniversaries big every year or keep it low key?
  33. 103Would you rather have a designated date night or keep it spontaneous?
  34. 104Would you rather retire early and travel or work longer near family?
  35. 105Would you rather get older together slowly or freeze this exact moment?

This or That

Fast round. Say the first one that feels true, no overthinking.

  1. 106Morning person or night owl?
  2. 107Sweet or savory?
  3. 108Beach or mountains?
  4. 109Texting or calling?
  5. 110Coffee or tea?
  6. 111Dogs or cats?
  7. 112Spontaneous or planned?
  8. 113Save it or spend it?
  9. 114Early night in or late night out?
  10. 115Window seat or aisle seat?
  11. 116Big group hangs or one-on-one?
  12. 117Sunrise or sunset?
  13. 118Comedy or horror?
  14. 119Pizza or tacos?
  15. 120Camping or hotel?
  16. 121Books or movies?
  17. 122Summer or winter?
  18. 123City life or country life?
  19. 124Big wedding or small wedding?
  20. 125Renting or owning?
  21. 126Neat freak or organized chaos?
  22. 127Big spender or big saver?
  23. 128Long engagement or short engagement?
  24. 129Kids now or kids later?
  25. 130Homebody or always out?
  26. 131Sweet talker or straight shooter?
  27. 132Cuddle first or coffee first?
  28. 133Talk it out or take space first?
  29. 134Road trip or flight?
  30. 135Plans or no plans on vacation?
  31. 136Left side of the bed or right side?
  32. 137Netflix or a night out?
  33. 138Fast texter or slow texter?
  34. 139Big birthday party or quiet dinner?
  35. 140Say it first or wait to hear it?

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