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Questions to ask a girl

Questions to ask a girl

For getting to know her, whether it is day one or date three.

The fastest way to lose a girl's interest is a boring question. The fastest way to keep it is one she has never been asked before.

These run from easy ice breakers to the ones that show you were actually listening, with a few flirty ones for the right moment.

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What is the best way to make you laugh in under ten seconds?


Ice breakers

  1. 1What is the best way to make you laugh in under ten seconds?
  2. 2What is your order at a coffee shop, no thinking required?
  3. 3What is currently playing on repeat for you?
  4. 4What is the most spontaneous thing you have done this month?
  5. 5What is a place nearby that you think everyone underrates?
  6. 6What would make today feel like a good day to you?
  7. 7What is a hobby you picked up and never expected to love?
  8. 8What is the last show you binged in one sitting?
  9. 9What is your go-to karaoke song, if you had to pick one?
  10. 10What is something you are weirdly excited about this week?
  11. 11What is the most used app on your phone right now?
  12. 12What do your group chats call you?
  13. 13What is a snack you always have on hand?
  14. 14What is the last thing you searched for online?
  15. 15What is your favorite way to spend a night in?
  16. 16What is the most useless thing you refuse to throw away?

Getting to know her

  1. 17What does your ideal weekend actually look like?
  2. 18What is something you have gotten really into lately?
  3. 19What is your work actually like day to day?
  4. 20What is a place you go when you want to think?
  5. 21What is the last thing you got genuinely excited to tell someone?
  6. 22What is a skill you are proud you taught yourself?
  7. 23What is something people always get wrong about you at first?
  8. 24What do you and your friends always end up talking about?
  9. 25What is a trip that changed how you see things?
  10. 26What is something you have gotten better at this year?
  11. 27What is a book or show that stuck with you longer than expected?
  12. 28What do you do on a day when nothing is planned?
  13. 29What is something you are working toward right now?
  14. 30What is a rule you live by that most people would not guess?
  15. 31Who in your family are you closest with these days?
  16. 32What is something you have never had the guts to try?

Fun and playful

  1. 33What is your most unhinged hot take about a completely normal food?
  2. 34What is a movie you will defend no matter how bad it is?
  3. 35What would your entrance music be if you walked in right now?
  4. 36What is the most competitive you get over a board game?
  5. 37What is a party trick you have been sitting on this whole time?
  6. 38Which fictional character do people say you remind them of?
  7. 39What is the weirdest compliment you have ever received?
  8. 40What is your go-to move in a dance-off you did not ask for?
  9. 41What is a food combination you love that horrifies everyone else?
  10. 42What is the most extra thing you would do to win a bet?
  11. 43What is a rule you have for yourself that makes no logical sense?
  12. 44If you had a theme song for today, what would it be?
  13. 45What is the most dramatic reaction you have ever had to something small?
  14. 46What is a nickname you had as a kid that needs to stay buried?

A little deeper

  1. 47What is something you believe that took you years to actually accept?
  2. 48What are you the most stubborn about?
  3. 49What does a good life look like to you, honestly?
  4. 50What is something you needed to hear when you were younger?
  5. 51What is a compliment that has stuck with you for years?
  6. 52What do you do when you need to reset after a bad day?
  7. 53What is something you are quietly proud of but never bring up?
  8. 54What is a fear you have gotten better at ignoring?
  9. 55What is something you have been putting off that you should not be?
  10. 56What is a change you made that turned out to matter?
  11. 57What does it take for you to really trust someone new?
  12. 58What is something about yourself that keeps surprising you?
  13. 59What is a value you will not budge on, even a little?
  14. 60What do you want someone to understand about you early on?

Flirty

  1. 61What is something about me you were not expecting?
  2. 62What is a compliment that actually gets to you?
  3. 63What would you do if I asked for your number right now?
  4. 64What is the smoothest thing anyone has ever said to you?
  5. 65What is a small thing someone can do that instantly gets your attention?
  6. 66Are you always this much trouble, or am I just lucky?
  7. 67What is something you do without realizing that is extremely attractive?
  8. 68What is a look you catch yourself giving someone you like?
  9. 69What is the last thing someone did that genuinely swept you off your feet?
  10. 70What would it take for you to admit you like me?
  11. 71What does your smile do to people that you have not noticed?
  12. 72What is a small thing I have done that you noticed but never mentioned?

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